You Look a Lot Like Me

An Essential Resource for Organizations Committed to Making a Difference. Shining a light on the complexities of domestic violence. A mosaic of stories shaping change.

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Survivor-Centered, Expert-Backed

You Look a Lot Like Me seeks to respectfully and authentically represent the experiences of domestic violence survivors. We aim to offer a resource that is as educational as it is healing, providing a voice to those often unheard and understanding to those seeking to support them.

With each story, You Look a Lot Like Me breaks down barriers of silence and stigma. This film is more than an educational tool; it’s a beacon for those seeking to understand the complexities of domestic violence. It empowers educators, influences policymakers, supports survivors, and ignites community dialogue—shaping a future where empathy and action pave the way for a violence-free world.

You Look a Lot Like Me is a documentary that reflects a deep understanding of domestic violence’s complexities. With a credible voice and careful attention to the survivor’s journey, this film is crafted to be a powerful tool for organizations seeking to foster change and provide support.

Our film brings to light the diverse experiences of survivors, with contributions from a male survivor, individuals from LGBTQ and Native communities, and insights from an individual who has completed an abuser education program. These narratives are presented with the aim of fostering a deeper understanding and connection.

“You Look A Lot Like Me is a riveting documentary about partner abuse which I recommend for survivors and clinicians. The experience and knowledge shared in this film can be a lifesaver. In this film, we witness saved lives. This unflinching work counters denial and avoidance by offering hope and healing that comes from brave, honest, open engagement. By speaking out and being heard, the cycle of isolating abuse and shaming is broken…”

— Steve Cadwell, L.I.C.S.W., Ph.D.,
Boston MA, Adjunct Faculty at BU Graduate School of Social Work & Harvard Medical School Program for Residents in Psychiatry

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“You Look a Lot Like Me is a powerful and informative film on the lived experience of domestic violence. I know of no other film on the topic that better covers the perspectives of diverse clients or better captures the intimate world of those caught in the cycle. I highly recommend You Look a Lot Like Me to anyone wanting to learn more about the reality of relationship violence.”

— Diane R. Gehart, Ph.D., best-selling author, award-winning educator, Founder and Director of the Therapy that Works Institute, and Professor Emerita at California State University, Northridge

Key Benefits & Highlights

Diverse Perspectives

Showcases a wide range of survivor stories, emphasizing inclusivity across genders, orientations, and cultural backgrounds.

Educational Tool

Serves as an invaluable resource for educators, law enforcement, healthcare providers, and advocacy groups, enhancing understanding and empathy.

Fosters Empathy

Through powerful storytelling, the film creates a deep emotional connection with viewers, fostering empathy and understanding.

Expert Insights

Features contributions from leading experts in domestic violence prevention, offering depth and credibility to the narrative.

Challenges Stereotypes

Breaks down preconceived notions about intimate partner violence, presenting a more nuanced view of survivors’ experiences and struggles.

Inspires Action

Motivates viewers to advocate for change, support survivors, and engage in community dialogue about domestic violence prevention.

Empowering Protectors & Educators

Domestic Violence and Abuser Education Programs:

Offer a fresh perspective that challenges, educates, and promotes transformative thinking.

Educational Institutions:

Equip the next generation of advocates, social workers, and legal professionals with profound insights into survivors’ realities.

Law Enforcement and Military Personnel:

Strengthen your approach with training that prioritizes empathy and effective intervention.

Public and Special Libraries:

Create centers of knowledge and empowerment with resources that inspire and inform.

Healthcare Providers and Mental Health Professionals:

Enhance your ability to recognize and thoughtfully respond to the nuances of domestic abuse.

Faith-Based and Community Organizations:

Become beacons of hope and proactive support within your communities.

Human Resource Departments:

Elevate your workplace culture with policies and practices that acknowledge and address domestic violence.

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Whether a survivor, friend, family member, educator, advocate, or mental health professional, You Look a Lot Like Me has something to teach us all.”

— Pamela Riss, M.S., LMFT

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See Beyond the Surface.

Experience the power of storytelling as You Look a Lot Like Me reveals the many faces of domestic violence. This documentary is essential viewing for anyone committed to social justice, healing, and change.

Whether you’re a professional in the field, an advocate, or someone looking to learn more, this film offers valuable insights and inspires a call to action.

Discover how ‘You Look a Lot Like Me’ can be a part of your mission to address domestic violence. Learn how to purchase the documentary for educational use, host a screening, or support our ongoing efforts to raise awareness and foster change. Together, we can amplify the voices of survivors and work towards a safer, more empathetic society.

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